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  • - Kati

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    My name is Kati and I’m 15 years old. I’m going into 9th grade now. My second year of 7th grade is when I messed up my whole life. I thought I was hanging out with the right people, but they did a lot of bad things to me. One day, two boys asked me if I would give them oral sex. I said no, but the girls that I thought were my “friends” tried to talk me into it. I kept saying no and I was so afraid that I just went back to class. After class someone came up to me and asked, “did you really give Andy oral sex?”. I responded with, “What of course not. What’s going on!?”. I didn’t know what had just happened. The girls that I thought were my friends turned on me. I didn’t hear everyone talking about me, but I had this feeling that everyone was. (Just writing this makes me cry). Later that day, the girls went to the dean and had reported what I had supposedly done, framing me. The dean called me into his office and started questioning me because apparently more than one witness had seen this. My punishment was suspension for 7 days. I started crying and I didn’t know what my mom was going to say or think. Even though it was a rumor, I felt like she wasn’t going to believe me. I was scared to go home. I was scared to go home to my own mother. I ended up crying the rest of the day. I couldn’t do anything. I later sneakily went on Facebook, and one of the girls wrote a Facebook status saying “Kati you’re a nasty female and we’re going to jump you when you get back for talking junk!”. I was so confused and upset that I started crying. Their plan was to jump me when I got back from suspension. I got back and the first person I bumped into was another one of the girls and she asked “Kati I heard you said you want to fight me” and another girl said “yeah!”. I pulled her aside and asked her who had said this to her. I didn’t know why these girls I once called my friends were doing this to me. Later that day, I went to use the bathroom and saw that people were writing “Kati’s a ho!”, “Kati gives oral for free!” in the stalls. I started crying. I was in the bathroom stall for 20 minutes sitting on the floor, crying. I was upset and even though it wasn’t true, it still hurt. I was nice to everyone and I was friends with everyone, but slowly, everyone started changing around me and stopped talking to me. I cried everyday for 6 months. I always went to school with bags under my eyes and swollen eyes from crying so much. In those months, people were making jokes about me and writing anonymous letters saying “All I do is give oral.” Leaving notes about the rumor in my backpack. And I cried, and cried, and cried, and cried. And to this day, I still cry because everyone thinks of me as that type of person. :'(Thank you for listening to my story. :'(- Kati